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This is site began as a blog for family, friends, and clients to see play-by-play how a divorce in a California courtroom with a Narcissist played out. Since my case is somewhat dormant, it has morphed into a venue, like many others, to provide resources to educate on all aspects of the relationship with a Narcissism and how to heal and move forward in life. With experience now inside a Family Law practice in Riverside and San Bernardino Counties, I will be tapping into Borderline and Histrionic Personality Disorders as well.

Lemons Into Lemonade

I'm sure you've heard it before; when life hands you lemons, make lemonade.  I never dreamed, in a million years that I would become a paralegal.  Looking back, as a child, I imagined myself married to a military man with a respectable career and being the best...

Thu, Mar 14, 2013

Stress-Depressed I'm struggling a lot with depression lately; not anything suicidal, but the kind that renders away all motivation and excitement. I'm not sure what exactly the problem is. I have so much to be thankful for and look forward to, but unlike the majority...

Sun, Mar 10, 2013

It's been said by people around me that I'm obsessed. It's even gone as far as saying I'm still in love with 'him'. It is so frustrating to live in a very small world where the only people who understand what I'm dealing with are other folks who are dealing with a...

Sun, Mar 3, 2013

Supervised visitation is a two-edged sword. On one hand, as the protective non-disordered parent, we are thankful that the visits are supervised and that our children will return with all their fingers, toes, arms and eyes. We are relieved they will return at all. On...

Sun, Feb 24, 2013

Over the last few years, I have first-hand experienced discovering who my true friends are. I have made some enemies severing a few toxic relationships along the way. To avenge their rejection, they have called authorities telling them horrible accusations to get them...

A court game of chess…

Yesterday was a win/lose day. Oh, I won... All of my hours, money, resources proved "he was able to do/work SOMETHING for a living", but they lowered the support by another $250 (basing it on imputed minimum wage) because I couldn't prove HOW MUCH he was making; I...

Wondering what the future holds…

Do you remember "Choose Your Own Adventure" books? The ones where you decide what the character is going to do at the end of every page and follow the instructions to the next storyline? I loved being an active part in deciding the fate of my character. Nowadays,...